New Addition to the Family

Yes, you read that right! We are about to add another little bundle to our family (Lord willing). When are we due, you ask??? We have no idea!!!!!

We have almost completed our home study to adopt an infant domestically. You can only begin to know how excited we are! God's hand as been SO evident in this process and we are resting very peacefully in the knowledge that He has it all orchestrated perfectly!

I just wanted to make sure you all knew. We are open to any questions you want to ask as we move through this process. We covet your prayers as well and ask that you please pray specifically for the birth mother and baby who will soon become part of our lives.

What is this.....The Learning Journey Part 4 or 5 by now?!?!?!?!

The Baby Formerly Known as Junebug

We are blessed beyond measure and very pleased to introduce you to our new son, Mathias Aiken, born Friday, May 28, 2010 at 12:31pm. He weighed 9lb 5oz and measured 21" long.

Mathias (muh-TIE-us, no "th" sound), meaning "Gift from God" is exactly that...a precious little gift. His namesake is found in Acts 1:21-26 where Matthias, who had been faithfully with Jesus since the beginning of his ministry, was the apostle chosen by prayer and lots to replace Judas. Also, Becky's Grandma, Vendla Jeane Aiken Edighoffer passed away in February of 2008 (shortly after Si was born) and so we give Mathias her maiden name to honor her memory.

Baby Thys (ice with a "t") was born at home in a planned water birth. He came quickly (7 1/2 hour labor), but not quite as quickly as his brother Si, since the midwives and other attendants all made it to the birth this time! Midwives, Amanda, and Patrice both attended the birth and were blessed to welcome little Thys with us. Alia and Josiah also witnessed Thys' birth and both are overjoyed and enthralled with their new brother. Alia had hoped for a girl baby for a long time but has discovered that a baby boy is just as fun! My Alia girl is growing up every day and was so mature and helpful during the labor, birth and immediately after the birth. What a good mommy she will be some day!

We pray that the love in our hearts reaches yours and allows us to share our joy with you!

The Kortmans
Paul, Becky, Alia, Si and Thys

Kortman5

Nope, sorry, no baby yet, but we do have a game to pass the time! For those of you NOT on Facebook....we want to share a link with you. We set up a guessing game for when the baby will arrive and what the stats will be. So click here and then place your best guess! The game name is Kortman5. How fun to be the winner!

New Number

I have another new phone number:

Contact me for the new number

Any other numbers you have are no longer in use.

However, we have been experiencing some technical difficulties with is new phone service and once in a while when you call my new number it will give some sort of error message. We are still working on this problem, but rest assured you have the correct number....please try again later. To say we have had problems with our phones here in this house would be a huge understatement so please bear with us as we work out (and maybe live with) some of the difficulties of living out in the sticks!

Suggestions

So, I am trying to plan for the rest of the summer. The garden is coming on in full force and I don't feel capable of keeping up with weeding, putting up all the produce that is headed our way, and managing the kids. [NOTE: this short list does not include house or animal chores that are requirements.] It was suggested to me to work in the garden during naps and do the canning after they go to bed. Whew! When is a girl supposed to sleep?

So, I am trying to make a new plan for getting it all done. It is in the beginning stages but that is what I have set my mind to. We'll see how it come out! As I plan...anyone have any suggestions that work for them? How to balance 2 very active kids (that often seem like twins) with canning and keeping up a 1/2 acre garden? I'd love to hear them!

Merry Christmas!

Nearly 2 feet of snow on the ground and more on the horizon sure makes it feel like Christmas! I (Becky) am especially enjoying this holiday season for a number of reasons. Here is a bit about us:

Alia is 2 1/2 and loves helping me with anything I am doing...anything. If I am baking cookies she is there with her apron on. If I am scrubbing the toilet she is there holding the toilet brush with me. She is often sweet and compassionate and kisses her brother when he gets hurt or comes over to rub my back when I look tired. However, she is one of my biggest challenges right now, for as much as she is sweet, she is twice as strong-willed. Alia knows her colors and is counting to 5 but we are still working on the alphabet and shapes. She did surprise me yesterday when we were doing school by correctly telling me how to spell her name..I guess she was listing!

Josiah recently turned 1 and he is just leaning to walk. Paul and I are really enjoying watching him learn and develop! A couple months ago he started to "participate" in evening toy pick-up when he grabbed a toy and threw it full force into the toy basket. He loves to play with his sister but is also very good at self-play as well. Si is a smiley little buddy who seems to exude sunshine. Paul's little carbon copy is definitely Daddy's Little Man! Generally, when Paul is at home Si is attached to him like glue and only the desire to nurse will cause him to want mama.

Paul continues to enjoy the challenge of his work at DDM Marketing. He has been learning more about SEO/M and teaching his co-workers. For the layman (like myself) Search Engine Optimization/Marketing is basically on-line marketing. He has also taken on more freelance work for individuals and non-profits.

Josiah's birth gave us a wonderful little blessing but it also sent us the challenge of Post-Pardum Depression. Paul had to take over a lot of my normal jobs (laundry, cooking, cleaning, errands, etc.) and slowly I was able to take them back, by God's grace. Now, we are taking one issue at a time and prayerfully trying to figure out how to "move forward to being who I want to be". There are still lots of questions and lots of tough stuff to go through on this journey, but one things remains... God was here when I got PPD, He is here now, and He will always be. Although I have a hard time making my brain slow down sometimes...that is a knowledge I can rest in.

Snow on the ground, check! Chasing laughing kids everywhere, check! Resting in Jesus' presence, check! Yes, I am definitely enjoying the holidays this year! We hope you are too!

Warmly,
The Kortmans
Paul, Becky, Alia & Josiah

New Digits

Hey There!

The fall weather we are having is so wonderful! Warm sun, higher temps (than last week), and cool breezes...oh, so nice! The kids are really enjoying the last few weeks of sandbox play time. Hopefully the weather where each of you are is equally as enjoyable!

Posting today just to let you know my new phone number. I finally got a phone that is reliable (at least more than before) and one with a local (to Newaygo) number.

So, after Wednesday, November 5th, I will no longer be using my old phone and the 616.499.5386 number. Please make a note of this date and the new number by which I can be reached...

Becky's New Cell: Contact Me for this number

I know, bummer...fix the address book, memorize another number, make corrections in cell phones. But, I appreciate it...and now, when you call me, I will probably answer! Imagine that--a phone that allows me to answer when someone calls! Astounding, isn't it!